Hear the Voices of Our Youth

"Here the Voices of Our Youth" and get in on the conversation @drjulieconnorI recently spoke at a conference for young women in Orlando. I stopped in Atlanta on my way back home. As I turned a corner in downtown Atlanta looking for a good place to eat, a large crowd of young demonstrators filled the streets.

They held signs with powerful messages such as “Pro-Black does not mean Anti-White” and “White silence equals compliance.” It was a peaceful protest that cried out for social justice.

“No justice. No peace,” shouted hundreds of young people as one voice in the Atlanta streets. “Know justice. Know peace.” 

“If you don’t stand up for injustice, you quietly allow it,” insisted Attiyah Ali. “If we all go in our separate corners by religion, race, color, and dig our heels in the ground, we’re never going to come up with a solution.”

“We are standing together as a unit, as a people, regardless of black, white, Chinese, Mexican, Asian,” agreed a young protester. “It doesn’t matter what you are or who you are, at the end of the day, today is the day we need to stand.”

Kasim Reed, mayor of Atlanta, was among those gathered at the demonstration. “I understand this is this generation’s protest,” he said. “Let this be the best version of ourselves.”

Reed’s presence showed the young people that he valued what they had to say. And he wanted to listen.

It may feel uncomfortable to hear negative criticism from the mouths of youth, but we have a responsibility to listen. More than half of the world’s population is under the age of 30. Katja Iversen, CEO of Women Deliver, maintains, “That means that more than 3.5 billion young people represent 3.5 billion opportunities for change.”

Young people mature into volunteers, activists, community leaders, and elected officials when they have opportunities to join in the dialogue about critical issues that are important to all of us. We invite them into active involvement in local activities and organizations by listening to them and providing safe opportunities to express their thoughts and opinions:

  • Openly discuss issues with young people. Don’t be afraid to raise sensitive topics for discussion. They are ready for good debate that challenges them to think, respond, and garner your respect.
  • Establish norms for discussion. Set ground rules for discussion that do not allow personal attacks. Use “I” statements (good example: “I think …;” bad example: “He’s an idiot.”). Agree to hear each other out without interrupting one another.
  • Challenge their sources of information. Invite young people to explain the reasoning that supports their opinions. Where do they look for reliable information? Where do you find reliable sources?
  • Agree upon mutual respect. You may not share the same opinions as others, but do not judge or criticize. Ask questions. Listen. Allow one another to own personal opinions.
  • Try to find common ground. Young people may have views that are drastically different from your own point of view. What issues are important to all people involved in the discussions? What common core values connect you to one another?
  • Avoid giving unsolicited advice. There is an appropriate time and place for advice, but it is usually best received when it is asked for – especially during a discussion.
  • Express gratitude for opportunities to dialogue. Thank them for sharing their opinions and listening to you. Invite them to come back to continue discussion. Dialogue strengthens relationships.
  • Expect dialogue to get messy – and it’s okay. When you allow others to share personal opinions, you may not reach a mutual agreement. Though you may not share the same beliefs; it’s important that you’re willing to listen to one another.

Many adults claim that young people are our future – but they are more than our future; they have something critically important to add to social discussions today. In the present. Now. 

Youth are speaking out. Are you listening? "Listen to the Voices of Our Youth" and talk it out.

Our youth are tuned in to current events and aware of social concerns. They are hungry to join the discussion. And they are starving for opportunities to dialogue with adults who will listen to them.

Civil rights activist, Martin Luther King, Jr., believed, “Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.” The only way to build relationships with our youth is through dialogue. The only way to ignite their interest in political and social activism is to let them know that their participation matters. That they matter.

Young adults are far less likely to vote than older citizens. When we do not value what they have to say about political issues, the power of elected government is weakened. 

In his most famous speech, The Gettysburg Address, President Abraham Lincoln rallied the importance of our entire citizenry; claiming “that this nation, under God, shall have a new birth of freedom – and that government of the people, by the people, for the people shall not perish from the earth.”

Tears streamed down my cheeks as I stood, with my hand over my heart, and watched young men and women march down the streets of downtown Atlanta. I admired their courage to speak out against injustice and to stand together in solidarity. I could not have been more proud of them. I felt proud to be an American.

Our youth are speaking out. Are you listening?

How can you become a better listener?

 

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Use these suggestions from How to Be a Good Role Model to pump up the example you want to inspire teens.

If you want to involve more young people in your organization, check out these tips from What You Must Do to Invite & Involve Youth (So They Want to Stay).

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4 Responses to Hear the Voices of Our Youth
  1. Outstanding Insights!!! I serve many youth and learn so much from them when I have the mindset of what Julie posted. Thanks for sharing these practical and powerful tips that will help us connect better and learn from our young leaders in all parts of our lives!

    Anthony
    The V.’I” P.( Violence “I” Prevent) Movement, LLC

    • As a youth leader, you really understand the power of listening and providing youth with many different ways to express themselves. And as you so well do, writing and the creative arts offer many powerful ways for young people to be heard. Thanks for all you do to inspire others. Thank you for inspiring me!
      Julie

  2. Great blog!

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